Re: Should a wife expect husband to give her right to do household shopping on her ow Hey Nithya, I am happy you respond to my reply and shared your mind with me.Thank You. I saw that you live in CA and the cost of living is pretty high in California.But still your husband's attitude is wrong and its not a small issue to neglect.If you don't handle it now...its gonna same all over your life. The best way is talk to him.Tell him what you feel. As far as going to India is concern...you can tell your parents that your career is important and you are getting very bore so you want to join some work for a couple of months just to upgrade your skills.Don't tell them everything.First search a job then when you get offer go there...or go for some course in india as they are pretty cheap out there.My sis also came to India for a 2 month course.My other frnz also do so.Nobody gonna question.There are consultants in India too who train you and then place you. You can tell your husband the same that you are not having a good time here so you want to work. I know courses here in America are too expensive but in local community colleges they are comparatively cheap.See if you can join them. You can join some H4 jobs.look for local consultants in your area if they can get you H4 jobs.There are HR jobs in desi consultants offices also... Try try and try.If one way doesn't work out try another way. 1 more thing...if you go to sulekha.com there in training ans job section in your area you can look for courses.They apply for your H1 also if you promise to work with them for 1 year or 6 months.It depends.You just have to pay for training and they say they refund that money .I don't think they do so.