From the year 2009 I was going through many struggles or can say ups and downs in my life. Cannot share everything as I already did a lot about me. Many people liked my posts which made me confident about myself that I can also be right many times. I am not a person very confident about myself not even feel too much low and degraded. Just a normal human being. I am not even a very outgoing one. Be it before marriage or after I like to stay at home and maximum of my lifetime had passed inside home. That made me too far from real life experiences but I even don't miss them too by knowing various negative things about it. Still life has taught me various things that I am trying to summarise here. First thing that I noticed is if we want something in life desperately or we are possessive about something then that thing will definitely make us to struggle a lot. Its rare to achieve very easily without much difficulties. If we are happy with our life then we will start living with fear of losing that happiness or will make up the mind that its just temporary. If we are sad then we will come up with more strength to fight with life. If we don't deserve something (reason could be we deserve better but that comes out at later stage) then no matter how much we suffer or struggle that thing will never come to us. Each and every moment in life has all the existing variations. What we take from that is our own choice. Like for example 4 persons are sitting together in a room and discussing something then each person will get different things that they want to take from their own choice. One can get positive other can be negative and one of them can become angry or can feel funny about it. Then who we will blame on. The situation that was same for everyone but everyone took that differently. Thinking negative is very easy. This I think is always within us. But being positive is a creative thought that we come out with our experience and learning. Whatever we want to achieve in life can be done only with right attitude. But that thing we learn from life. After some or many failures depends on person's ability. We are most of the time get influenced by the person whom we find better than us. Our self confidence depends on the people we are interacting with. If we met with more of less influencing people then we are more confident about our self otherwise we doubt on our ability. Our mind grows with time and experience. But we always want to be far from present growth. We always expect more from it. Many more things to say. But due to short of time I am ending it up here. I would love to read everyone's experiences if they like to share some. Thanks for reading.