Dear sriniketan, You have a point there. What are hurtful and you want to forget need not be shared with anyone. and also when you understand your spouse you really know what to tell and what not to tell. thanks for your opinion dear.
Ansh dear, It is an opinion poll you are qualified to answer. You have a strong point there about pointing only the positive aspect of everybody and you are right about the sportiveness... thanks dear for your opinion.
AGR, Thanks for your views. yes there is variety called open secret. and sometimes, it turns out ugly also.