I do agree. But need to be more practicle. child is 7+ and understand only love and emotions. currently child doesn't understand what is good and who is right or wrong. I am thinking I will give some years while child understand and will try then. till then I will have only option to rely on child wishes - believe me I can try to get forcefully but it not just child but won't make me happy either and I will end up being a moral police.