Hi, from both sides, we are the only one who left India and settled in US as citizens. We do not have any near or far relative who is n US ( or any other country in fact, with choice) My side siblings are settled in govt jobs and educated ( know english). My H side, his siblings are do not know language much and have health issues too (they are aged). We were thinking whom to add to our will in case of unfortunate event for our kids. Also we are setting up trusts. We all are US citizens. Lawyer suggested to have some friend in local zone for obvious reasons but i understand it is a big responsibility. After 1/2/3 days, other person will start losing patience with kids and friends can move also. So I am thinking to give my brother's name ( married, no kids yet, settled in job) . I know he may not be available right away. But for all the reasons, i trust him more than anything when it comes to kids. What is your advice?