This is my first post in IL. Hope you guys help me out of my misery. Well to tell it in a gist, My daughter (currently 29 years) had her uterus & ovaries removed at a tender age of 18 years following multiple reoccurring fibroids & operations to prevent it from spreading to other parts in abdomen. As it worsened to the point where we had to chose between her fertility and her life. God gave us courage through the tough time and we overcomed together in family. But from past few years there is a silent feeling of sorrow in our family when we see girls her age /friends getting married and moving ahead in their life. Our blessings to these beautiful souls ! But somehow my daughters life has became stagnant. She is unsure, hazy of her life, relationships, future. To make it worse she underwent depression in the grief over past trauma and uncertainty of her future. Her life is not like any other normal girl. When she is social with friends, family & cousins she is normal but when back alone and at home she is the same quiet, no zeal & silent. She has been hesitant to go in any relationship during her young age due to the same to avoid losing it when things are disclosed as any family would not really accept it. She has been a achiever in her school/college and was very ambitious and hard working girl with sky as the limit. But due to this even this is fading. She is drained, depressed and is unable to handle stress, not enjoying her career/job in short not full of life. We feel its time she should get married/ find a suitable life partner/soulmate to have an emotional support system & strength when we are no more with her as she is the only child and is a nuclear family. It will also help to overcome her past. But now the problem arises - 1 How should we go ahead with her marriage 2 What kind of boy/family will accept this (if ever)? 3 Will arrange marriage will ever be a solution to this ? 4 Will there be someone who becomes her strength, be understanding and have a normal cheerful life. There are so many worries daunting us about her marriage/future to me and my husband and is sinking us too. Anyone who could help/suggest will be really appreciated.