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  1. Oct 22, 2011 #1
    iyerviji

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    A very tue message

    The taste of water can be enjoyed only when we are thirsty
    Same way the care of true persons will be known only when we are alone

    This year some of my friends lost their husband suddenly. They are feeling lost now without them. Even though their children are there to take care they miss their husband. Just as noone can take a mother's place, husband's place also noone else can take. Especially after fifty the couple become more close and miss each ohter if the other person is not there. A lady can manage without husband but for a man it is difficult to manage without his wife. For the ladies whose husband used to do all the outside work difficult to manage as they are not used to doing bank work etc. They feel now how they will manage, they dont want to trouble their children. Now a days ladies have to learn everything and should not depend on others. Then they will be able to lead their life well.

    Never search your happiness in others it will make you feel alone. But search it in yourself, you will feel happy even if you are alone.



     
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  2. Oct 22, 2011 #2
    Sriniketan

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    Very practically said, Viji.
    Self-reliance is the best. ladies have to learn everything and should not depend on others. Then they will be able to lead their life well.

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    Dear Vijima,

    I can't agree more with your observation. These days it is very essential for women to learn to manage finances too. Having said which, it is high time I learnt to do so too. :hide :bonk
     
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    Very true, Vijimma... One must be self reliant. Though in absence of the one, the emotional helplessness can not be filled up by any means !
     
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    A very true post vijima! Yes, ofcourse, we must learn to be self-reliant... else, it would be very difficult these days!!
     
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    Srini dear thanks for the first fb. How are you?
     
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    iyerviji

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    Yes Satchi dear of late it has become essential to be independent and learn to manage finances and everything individually and not depend on others. The present generation have the ability to manage but older generation find it difficult as they keep themselves busy in house work and family and dont know what is happening outside the world.
     
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    iyerviji

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    Kalyani dear glad to see you here in your busy schedule with your views
     
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    Thanks Vidhya dear for your views
     
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    A very true statement, aunty. This should be taught to girls before they get married, as they must be able to manage the outside tasks as well. Of course, the fact remains that some girls cannot manage even the house alone!
     
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