Hi I am a married man with 2 kids. My marriage life was not good from beginning . We were living in USA. We returned to India this year of 2015. We had issues but we never separated for our children. I am not here to blame on my wife, she had issues and i too had issues . But after returning back, my wife became very depressed and started figting too much. I could not understand anything. I assumed it the same old pattern of fighting she had before in usa. Soon she found a friend during one of her job interviews she added him to facebook. I never really bother on my wife social activity. I also feel it is not good to too. However then she added him to her whatsapp account and once i found he shared his photo to her. I was very angry and i shouted that it is fine to be friend and chat but sharing individual photo i do not like.The main reason i told for fight, that they both are in facebook friends , if he or she has to see new photo. update them in facebook., After some days she also shared her photo to him and i caught her. It was a decent photo. this time i became really mad and i confronted him too. After this day, the boy was not comfortable in talking to her. Slowly my wife started getting depressed again. One day she shared a secret that she had a emotional affair with her collegue in usa during her work in 2014. Now she is back and they both decided not to contact, she is very depressed and is missing that emotional support. soon she has started chatting online with random people and also during really sexual chat. When i confronted her she is shouting on me for intervering her personal life. Today she chatted with some man in Blore and she made him as his friend. I saw the chat it was really personal and looks like that person wants to have a affair. (I have a firewall in home network for kids , hence i could see everything) Now i cannot sleep at all, this is affecting me a lot . I get thoughts of doing bad things 1. drinking in house 2. leaving the house 3. try hard to have affair Sorry my above points looks silly but i am very angry and depressed. My wife tells she is doing this to solve her depression.But she will never meet him. But in chat i saw she shared her office name with him and lied to me. I will see a personal counsellor for me to ask further. However i do seek a advice.