Ever since my first child was born, my sister in law (husband's sister) is kind of obsessed with him. She's been visiting us on every weekend and holidays. I understand that she is thrilled to have become an aunt but I find it a little overboard. She has saved all of my son's pictures on her computer. She insists me to send his pictures very often (pointless, seeing that they are here every weekend) She follows me and my son into every room whenever she's here. I mean, I can't change a diaper in peace. It is like a school inspection. My every move is judged. She later narrates every minute detail to my mother in law (in-laws live 7 hours away) Her 5 year old daughter is very loud, which I find annoying and draining. She keeps dumping all the baby toys. She often goes near my son when he's asleep and asks me if she can kiss him. I mean, she's just a kid and I understand that. But when I politely tell her not to disturb the baby or not to make a mess, my sil gets annoyed and indirectly lectures me (some other time, not there and then) me about how matured her daughter is and how well she handles babies or how well disciplined she is.. etc. My husband works very hard on weekdays. Weekends are our bonding time as a family. I have expressed my concerns to him and while he agrees that they visit too often, he can't say a straight no to his sister when she calls us to visit. If we try to escape her and say we are at the mall or something, she comes and visit us at the mall... lol I would like to make our visits once every 3 or 4 weeks. Any ideas appreciated.