Hi, So, we are married for 4 1/2 yrs now. Last year I had to live at my parents (in India) because of misunderstandings and "not meeting his expectations" , he even filed for a divorce and after 9 months took it back and we are together with our 2 yr old for about 6 months. He as now started demanding - 1. a clean house (its a typical toddler home) 2. taking care of our kid (refuses to send her to daycare since he says lack of funds (he works I do not) 3. pressurizes me to go back to work (dont get me wrong, i personally want to start working again but do not find time to prepare myself, apply jobs (i have been applying squeezing in time with much difficulty)) 4. make him variety of meals (i cook everyday once in the morning so we can have it for lunch and dinner) My problem is - he very well knows i have a certification exam coming up, (if i pass it will boost my resume) , kid is under my care 24x7 its not that i abandoned her, and that i need to study for my exam. He just woke up at 1 am and found me studying and is furious that i am sleeping whenever i want and keeping the house like this.he started arguing fighting , coming and leaning over my laptop to see what i was doing / studying. He micro manages everything, he needs to know my every move, I am in tears. Stopped studying and just dont know what to do except be strong.