Hi Dear Ladies, I am becoming active member here.I am feeling better as well. Before coming here I used to think I am the only who is getting all these feelings,but after reading I am feeling much better. One more thing I would like to ask.What you do in following situations: Suppose there is a major event which you planned differently but your IL's made it somehow bad. My question is suppose there is something happened at such event which is major for you.Which is one and only.But they spoiled it.And despite spoiling they are not sorry for it in fact telling how they were correct.Even in everyday life too they make something and you end up just smiling outside and fuming inside. At one place I feel let's revert back, let them ask why did you do this? Why spoiled it.But revert back means "Ulta jawab". Again they will say bad words about me to there relatives and will say DIL is so arrogant.Even for 2 years you just keep mum.Still I have not revert back and asked. I am really scared of revert back. As they are elder so revert back means their insult.Even if I revert back once then I will listen 100 times in future. At other place I feel why I should keep mum.I think there is something called ego.Inside I feel why to remain silent. What will happen maximum? Why should I keep in my mind and trouble myself. As that event is over I try to explain myself why are you thinking about it. That is over now and despite worrying and getting angry that is not coming back.So forget it and be at peace with IL's. So what you do in such situation? DO you revert back?Do you feel scared to revert back although you are right? Do you keep silent like ignorance is best policy? And how do you remove hurt from your mind.