Hello, My once sweet daughter who is 13 now is suddenly misbehaving at home, making bad friends at her new middle school, and learning bad things. From going to bed before 11 to getting to the bus on time everyday is a nightmare. It has been literally 3 years and we have been dropping her to school everyday as she misses the bus. I got curious as how her behavior can change so much and I asked around and several people said it is due to Rahu. Can someone suggest some remedies or poojas !! My once cute angel is torturing us. !! Please advise for our sake as well as my daughters sake. They are saying Rahu can make her suffer due to friends and I can see that already !!
All teenagers misbehave like arrogant, grumpy. Try to change her habits like less screen time, better diet, strict time table. If she misbehaves take out her electronics like phone, no hanging out with friends. In this age kids get influenced by friends lot. I remember you were planning to move to India. What happened about that?
I had applied to several schools in India and got admission as well. I chose Bangalore as the job prospects will be better as we have not lived in India for more than 17 years, and it will be easier to get settled career wise. But the problem is husband is not agreeing to moving even after he lost job this month. I think moving to India in this tough market, and considering my daughter’s situation is the best option at this time anyway I see it. But what do I do?? Both my husband and daughter are troubling me and being stubborn. One due to teenage and the other possible due to a midlife crisis. However in the meantime I am seeking astrological solutions too as I am unable to face these situations without god’s help as well.
In this situation you have to keep very good patience with your daughter. Don't get very angry and try to tackle situation with smartness. Look for good therapist for your daughter. Try to connect with other moms whose kids are same age. Setup playdates or movies or lunches, shopping trips with those other girls her age. Maybe she should hang out with different kids who are more interested in academics, sports, music etc. Start therapist asap.
In the meantime if someone can offer remedies and temples to visit for afflicted Rahu, that would be greatly appreciated.
Whoever told you about this Rahu, why don't you ask them about remedies? As per my opinion please try to keep peaceful happy environment at home and keep good connection with your kids. Spend quality time, avoid arguments, don't get into fights, avoid any conversation which will trigger stress. Take your daughter to good therapist asap.
@OP what you had written here is normal teen behavior.Just today morning had argument with son about his laid back attitude and extremely slow pace in finishing his tasks.More than Rahu remed is needed inside home and the way family interact with each other.Teens don't like to spend time with parents or talk to them.What we can do is make time and be with the child before they go to bed for atleast 10 mind.I stay with my son in his bed before his sleep and talk to him on general things and then i move to my bedroom. He didn't like this when we started this routine and resisted alot.But I didn't budge.Its been a year and now I can see he moved from giving me one word answers to sentences. We need to put lot of effort as a parent ,because teen years is not easy and no short cut works.However if you have a family prayer time do Siv panchaaakshari chanting.This pacify difficult times.
