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  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    A lovely quote received in whatsapp

    Great value of having good people aroundus is not what we get from them but the better person we become just because of them. That is the power of association

    In my case the above quote is very true. If I am progressing in life it is because of the people around me who always encourage me and inspire me to do more . I have earned so many brothers through facebook , actually more than my girl friends they encourage me more and appreciate my work. I feel blessed to have virtual loving brothers.

    Here is another one

    Many relations cannot be evaluated in terms of money or gains,, because some investments never make a profit but still they make us rich

    Money comes and goes and doe snot come with us when we leave this world but the good things we do only comes with us. What is th euse of living a luxurious life . The more money we have the more problems, instead if we have less money and be satisfied in life then we can enjoy life to the fullest.. When young I used to think of luxurious life but now I understand tha tmoney is not everything in the world.

    A nice message written on a balloon which was flying highup in the sky

    It is not what is outside but what is inside that takes you to the top

    I have always been afriad of losing people I love but I sometimes think is there anyone who is afraid of losing me too

    Let me not bore you all more
     
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  2. Hopikrishnan

    Hopikrishnan Platinum IL'ite

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    The people who earn money for creating wealth/legacy to leave for the next generation, usually do not have the habit of spending money to live a luxurious life. It is the next generation that inherits the money, who can spend it and enjoy the luxuries. The skimping and money-saving generation lives with that fear in the gut that they might go back to how grim it used to be if they spend some money and enjoy it a bit. The younger generation that inherits have no experience of that penury.... and therefore no fear.

    Lots of money doesn't necessarily come with lots of problems.
     
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    For me I'm the power myself for what I'm today, at this very second.
    I understood very hard that if you're doing well people are with you,if you're suffering people are behind you,if you're not transparent about your life people are curious. Most people are eager to see you drowning than save you. Parents are exceptional and unconditional, the only soul that wants good for us and do good for us.

    My kids always give me an option of whether I like it or love it. Thats the choice am having for those people around me. Minimalism and ikigai!
     
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    Thanks for your feedback
     
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    Very true
     
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    Hello mam
    Nice snippet,100% true what you discussed here.I have earned lot of lessons than money but still I feel I am rich.My lessons taught so many experiences which I can never,ever buy.The money I am earning it's only for my comfort but more than this good people around me are always showering with their love and affection,they are my big supporters.

    Recently I wrote this quote:

    As long as your mind is rich, you are not a poor person.

    I even posted on Indusladies status.

    I have seen people,if you are richer than them they maintain relationships else they say see you GoodBye.People don't even hesitate to hurt others and don't even think whether it is right or wrong in behaving such a way.Though people have attitude,if they are rich many will be around them.At the same time if we have good people and not rich,such one will be rejected.
    I have got lot of scolding, because I don't maintain people based on their financial position.Many of us think financial position is our status,but I don't feel financial position will gives us comfort.For instance if I have lakhs of money I will own my car,if not I will hire a car via uber,ola.. but I use same mode of transport or other transport but I can travel.
    But now a days,I am feeling if I would been rich, during this pandemic time,I would have done more and more help to many people.I have this repent,I did small help.
    Earning 4 people for life is very important,though we are rich,symbol of financial status act as a stamp till we are alive,after our death these 4people are very important.
    Being rich is our pride, only when we have desire to help others.But not earning for our material things.

    I often get scoldings from my friends,they say it's too much philosophy at this young age.I believe philosophy never change with age.
    These are my small lesson of my big life,yet to learn more.
    Regards
    Ratna
     
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    I am among those who are afraid of losing you. I am Such a big fan of you. :banana::wave1:
     
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    Kudos to madam for her dwelling upon the aesthetic WhatsApp message couched in a quote: one would endorse your views and the underlying idea how association of good friends keeps us going even when our flesh is weak but mind is young.

    Under the Sun everything has a relation to all other beings and things and entities. There is or are some formulae connecting everything to other. Some visible, some remain invisible with a purpose behind it. In other words, what constitute a thing or a person or a plant is some complex or simple associations. Persons - children in particular - are at their plyable age exposed to Very many friends or and contacts and all or few of these associations determine their future character. Even talents are grown by the seeds sown during their association. Character forming years - we guard our children to get into better productive associations.

    True.

    A fine observation worth brooding about especially the one who do not enjoy life but save all their wealth and money only for the progeny to enjoy. When my children would switch on lights and fans and AC irrespective of need, I go behind switch off one by one. Even today I continue with this habit but now it is not my children but my spouse determined to keep all switches on. Our rainy days arrived yet even now I try to save.

    That is especially true when we Tom Tom about our or our children’s any small or big achievement. Better to keep low profile, lest we get drowned by these bad associations.

    Broad mindedness is a virtue to cultivate but it is hard to come by once one see the riches.
    We make presents in cash or kind. Cash presents might be forgotten though it would be used wisely!

    But kindness and demonstrable generosity at the hour of the need seldom forgotten even by foe.
     
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    Hello Mam
    I forgot to write to quote in above reply,I too have such fear of losing loved ones,I like you very much,I read your mind through your post though I have not seen you or meet you in person,but still I can feel the relationship.If I don't see your post,I miss you in IL, immediately I ping you,thank you for your instant reply.Be Happy, Healthy and keep posting.
    Regards
    Ratna
     
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    sir,Forget achievement, staying healthy and problem free itself is enough for some people! :biggrin:
     
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