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  1. messedup

    messedup Platinum IL'ite

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    I said many things
    They said many things..
    I felt bad for their words
    They felt bad for my words..
    Who's wrong who's right
    Who will decide.

    We tried hard to keep going
    We ignored a lot everything knowing
    To save the relationship
    To save the relationship.

    The heart full of love
    The heart full of respect
    The mind full of anger
    Everything stopped working.

    Wondering what next
    Are We failed in sacrifices test
    Lot more is required to stay connected
    The efforts we made are not enough
    To make it effective.
     
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  2. Thyagarajan

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    Your attempt to draw attention via a poem too is appreciated.

    You said the reality. While saying so no one could come inbetween on judgement. You said your side of the coin. But judgement needs to hear both sides though in general it is universal truth that Hitler women that too possessive one could be extrovert. DILs are mostly turn introvert thanksto society and upbringing. But this has been going on for several generations. Though Modern education and economic displacements impacted the relationship in a different manner but the basic hate and nature of self cantered behaviour of previous gen still in vogue.
    But then my friend says every DIL of today Is MIL of tomorrow.
    God bless.
     
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    That's very true. I am analysing side by side about my situation when I will become mil. It's complicated.. :blush:
     
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    I like your poem, easy to relate to....

    Generally I see you as a very emotional woman, wanting to take care of kids, husband and also maintain good with MIL.Really admirable
     
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    We need haiku (3 lines 17 syllables) or kuraL (two lines following the syllable count and grammar). Nothing like the prospect of mutual annihilation to assure peace.
    Here is my attempt at haiku in keeping with topic:

    Hot war or cold war ?[5 syllables]
    We toss a word, they toss back [7 syllables]
    Nukes assure peace. [5 syllables]
     
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  6. Thyagarajan

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    Glad you could make it as per Japanese Haiku model quite axiomatic! But sad that I could not find a suitable title to confer & grant an award.
     
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    I am not too sure about thirukkuraL syllable counts and grammar.... but here is my illiterate attempt, in keeping with the mutually assured destruction concept of the cold war:
    Daughter’s happy life at Inlaws
    Assured by suicide vest.​
    However, seriously, the OP should work in the concepts of diplomacy, and holding one's tongue in communications with the enemy and so on...
     
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    Leaving no stones unturned -eh! Superb indeed. Advise to OP too.
     
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    Good is not always good. Whatever good I did is now became bad or even worst.
     

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