Relationship

iyerviji · Apr 28, 2020

Facts of life which I learnt in my 72 yrs experience
Any RELATIONSHIP is possible only when two egos are dropped. Otherwise four persons are involved – Two real & Two imaginary
So, Let Go of you Ego …. Whenever you are wrong – Admit it and whenever you are right – Keep Quiet. This will surely keep the relationships strong. And like needles of a clock, strong relationships always remain connected even when they meet on few occasions.
Dont understand with some we become close very fast but with some even after ages we cant be close
Children and elders need our valuable time , children till the age of 5 years and elders after sixty. When children grow up they dont need so much and especially now a days children grow fast and they teach us better than what we learnt from our experience. Elders need us more when they become old and we should spend valuable time with them when they are there so that we dont repent later when they are not there
Someone said in a discourse that since parents leave their children in creshe when they are kids so when the parents grow old kids leave them in old age homes
Life is the most difficult exam . Many people fail because they try to copy others,Not realizing that everyone has a different question paper .

MalStrom · Apr 28, 2020

Very true words, Viji Aunty.

iyerviji · Apr 28, 2020

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Very true words, Viji Aunty.
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Thanks dear for your first like and feedback

Agatha83 · Apr 28, 2020

iyerviji said: ↑

Facts of life which I learnt in my 72 yrs experience
Any RELATIONSHIP is possible only when two egos are dropped. Otherwise four persons are involved – Two real & Two imaginary
So, Let Go of you Ego …. Whenever you are wrong – Admit it and whenever you are right – Keep Quiet. This will surely keep the relationships strong. And like needles of a clock, strong relationships always remain connected even when they meet on few occasions.
Dont understand with some we become close very fast but with some even after ages we cant be close
Children and elders need our valuable time , children till the age of 5 years and elders after sixty. When children grow up they dont need so much and especially now a days children grow fast and they teach us better than what we learnt from our experience. Elders need us more when they become old and we should spend valuable time with them when they are there so that we dont repent later when they are not there
Someone said in a discourse that since parents leave their children in creshe when they are kids so when the parents grow old kids leave them in old age homes
Life is the most difficult exam . Many people fail because they try to copy others,Not realizing that everyone has a different question paper .
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Dear @iyerviji,

A nicely written post about relationships. handling a child is much easier than handling an elderly person. A child doesn’t have ego and even if we chide them, they forget it in a few minutes and become normal. But the elderly people have strong egos and we have to handle them with kid gloves. When we are young we have all the patience, but as we turn older we loose the patience and have to face difficult situations while dealing with all kinds of people.

Agatha83

iyerviji · Apr 30, 2020

Agatha83 said: ↑

Dear @iyerviji,

A nicely written post about relationships. handling a child is much easier than handling an elderly person. A child doesn’t have ego and even if we chide them, they forget it in a few minutes and become normal. But the elderly people have strong egos and we have to handle them with kid gloves. When we are young we have all the patience, but as we turn older we loose the patience and have to face difficult situations while dealing
Agatha83
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Very true thanks for your feedback