Hi ILites, I want to know from all of you (both men & women) that how comfortable and fine you are if your partner is having one night stand with any random person. I mean he/she is sexually involved just for one night for fun. Why I am asking this is because my husband always teases me by saying that he want to have one night stand with some random woman (for example (he always give this example to me) as Ranbir kapoor had with a foreign woman in movie "ye jawani hai deewani" in the song "Ilahi") and he says what's the big deal if I get sexually involved with someone just for one night, at the end of the day I am coming to you and all yours. Afterall I will not be emotionally involved, I'll be physical. At the end when I'll be crying or not talking to him then he'll say sorry and he also says that I like teasing you this way and see you feel jealous of other woman. It really scares the hell out of me. I told him very clearly and strictly that I can't tolerate betrayal whether its physical or emotional.The day I will find that he is involved in any such thing that will be the last day we'll be together. But again and again this topic is coming and he says I have seen other women who are OK if their husband had sexual intimacy with other woman just for one night. I am really very scared of this thing and unable to trust him. I always fear and doubt him. Whenever he is out of station or talks of other woman being beautiful, I really doubt him. And he says why you can't take things lightly, from now on I'll not tell anything to you, I will not be teasing you and will not be doing any kind of "mazaak" with you. I don't know whether he is serious or just teasing me but I want to know from all of you, whether you can tolerate this if such things happen in real and if your partner is teasing you, upto what level you can bear?