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Regarding emotional support from spouse

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by lmani, Jan 10, 2008.

  1. anbk

    anbk New IL'ite

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    Emotional support n everything else....

    What i have learnt from my 4 yrs of marriage is that....emotional support of anything else....they just wont give it when u explicitly make it known that u need it....
    They would do it only if you make it seem like it was their idea n they wanted to give it to you....

    Ask n u shall be granted has never been the case at least in my marriage...
    Hes been really spontaneous n romantic n planned n gifted very many things on his own....
    But those stuff that i ask for....even the littlest stuff.....nope! And in turn i complain n whine n wail....n with no no no positve response..

    And though I know the idea is to give him the power n let him be the benevolent n generous giver ...rather than responding to just a want or complaint...i can never do it.....may be its a clash of egos...or may be an unwillingness to mask things....
    But i sure do hope u will get what u want by simply not outrighty stating what it is that you want.....drop hints n let him think it up as his own big idea!
     

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