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  1. Dec 21, 2019 #41
    ashneys

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    Wow.. Back to back ‘guys’ trip to Amsterdam n Las Vegas! I know many who has both these places on their list for going as guys / gals only trip, n not family. Looks like he’s ticking his bucket list. Working three jobs to enjoy his life n fulfil his bachelorhood dreams.

    Would advise you to stop interfering or trying to make sense of it. Its within her rights to stop him if it’s bothering her or have doubts about his loyalty. Whatever the problem is, The spouses will kiss n make up and you will become the enemy in the end.
     
    ashneys, Dec 21, 2019
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  2. Dec 21, 2019 #42
    Sunshine04

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    The husband could be lying.
    Now its las Vegas.
    He could be doing more.
    The wife has to speak with him.
    Both should list the problems in their life and work towards solving it.
    Else she has to divorce him.
     
    Sunshine04, Dec 21, 2019
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  3. Dec 21, 2019 #43
    EagerForInfo

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    I would not involve and I am not involving. I would not think about this if she had not asked me. I too have my own life. But she is a very close friend. I am just trying to make sense of it myself. What is special about these two places and what is the need to go there. ?? They went to Amsterdam with 6 people and now another set of 6 guys are going along with the husband to Vegas. Obviously no one will suspect anything until they are gone and don’t pick up the phone or call . Obviously anyone will be curious and start googling as to what there is to see there. This time my friend found out Las Vegas is called sin city and from there her worrying started again.

    What could go wrong in Vegas ? Adult shows ...and is it possible to have *** with other ladies or have something regretful happen ?

    I don’t understand what to tell her ? Why would someone need to work 3 jobs in the first place. And now 2 trips in 6 weeks. I too don’t understand. Baffled myself.
     
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  4. Dec 21, 2019 #44
    Sunshine04

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    You cannot involve in her life.
    She can only vent to you.
    I am not very knowledgeable about las Vegas.
    But i am guessing people can have *** if they are ready to pay.
     
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    ragzz

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    people go to Vegas for the stars? Or is it autocorrect for sex?
     
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    EagerForInfo

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    If ur are not knowledgeable please don’t comment. The reason I posted here is because I’m not knowledgeable about it too.
     
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    EagerForInfo

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    Anyways men have not had sex till they get married. Can’t they wait a little while wife is tired with sleepless nights with small baby??

    I am just trying to help her make sense of it.
     
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    EagerForInfo

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    Also she was saying her Husband was extremely nice to her before he left. Why ?? Has anyone experienced such things??
     
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    SinghManisha

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    Everyone that goes to a temple is not a saint and everyone that goes to Vegas is not a sinner.
     
    SinghManisha, Dec 22, 2019
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    Voila! I was thinking in the same vein. EforInfo is a third party, and her info is heresay. The dH involved in this discussion may have gone to a zen meditation retreat - no mobile phone use allowed is a clear sign. And he had to fib about Holland and Vegas, so that people may not laugh at him behind his back. It is as OK to suspect people of good intent, when we don’t know the actual info and engage in guesses only.
     
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