Life is going pretty decent.Husband is a good guy and one should be happy right? Yeah am happy but sometimes I miss the good old times. He used to express his care and love during the first few years of marriage.Not that he does not care now..but it is different.Relationships have become more take it for granted. Sometimes it will be nice if he surprises me Taking me out for a special dinner and just focusing on our talks or spend and talk with me etc..hold hands and walk..small stuff like that. Life is more about going to the same Olive Garden,buying from grub hub and yeah special occasion during weekends is giving me some peace by taking kid out to grocery.Cute but would love some extra affection. I miss those good old days sometimesNow if I go to talk to and spend time with him ..sir is so busy watching some thriller series or office meeting or talking about bills and expenses.Great to be practical but still! Living abroad where u have lesser distractions and life revolving around family..sometimes it sucks lol.It will be nice to dress up well and have your hubby talk to u with love and not just care. I know am expecting too much at the age of 40..and hope I don’t feel this way at 60 How to rebuild the chemistry and have husband take notice ? Though I dress well and try to look presentable ..the way he looks at me or compliments is not like how it was when younger. I know am expecting a lot but sometimes this heart yearns for some chemistry and a bit of romance.Either I have to become practical or make some change.How to deal?