Hi all... I am trying to understand a Man's mind.Why would a very well educated and financially settled successful man in this "ERA" be not happy with the fact that his wife will inherit assets from his in laws down in the future and create a fuss about this? Is it the greed to have everything including his wife & kids in control? Is it to giveaway to extended family members and/or to his girl friend in case of an EMA? To freely experiment with the assets without the need of the wife's consent? Is it to simply satisfy his ego? or all of the above ??? Case 1 My cousin went through this phase during her younger days and finally gave up.I salute her widowed mom who stood firm for the sake of her grand kids.After the kids grew up the guy finally gave in. Case 2 My mom's friend's daughter went through a similar situation after she lost her brother.Her widowed mom successfully swam against the evil tide. Does this mean it take a life time for a man to realize his mistake? Have any of your experienced the above, how did you deal with it? Please pen down your thoughts.