Prolonging Vaginal Lubrication

Dear All,

I have a pretty intimate question to ask. Initially, we had this issue of me not lubricating at all. We increased the time we do foreplay and now I lubricate quite well.

However, the issue we are facing is that my lubrication sustains only for 5 minutes or so. This creates a sense of urgency in both of us. My husband wants to ejaculate before I get dry so that he gets his pleasure. I want him to ejaculate before I dry so that I don't feel guilty. I also want to avoid the pain if he keeps going after I get dry.

This sense of urgency is preventing us from having a satisfactory experience. We are not able to communicate with each other to try different positions that might be enjoyable to each and iterate. For example, he prefers to be on top and that is uncomfortable for me as he puts all his weight on me. I prefer for him to not go too down as it starts hurting me (but he says that helps him ejaculate quick). We are not able to talk about these things because in both our minds there is only one thought - ejaculate before I get dry.

I need some help on how to prolong my vaginal lubrication. Please help!

Sushma