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Problems ladies face after getting married

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Afterunion, Nov 19, 2014.

  1. Afterunion

    Afterunion Senior IL'ite

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    I want to start this thread with a question. What are the problems you have faced in your married life?
    I am a newly-wed girl and would like to know what I am about to face. Thanks a lot.
     
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  2. Harini73

    Harini73 Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi,

    Why do you want to think about problems? Be positive and think positive.

    Let us face the problem when it comes to us. Let us not imagine and wait for problem.

    Happy married life.friendssmiley
     
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  3. sumanrathi

    sumanrathi IL Hall of Fame

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    I am too think like Harini

    Marriage will full fill a human life. you should think you are entering into a Beautiful garden and the next phase of your life. It is very sweet and happy pl. think positively this vibration will make you happy and suppress your all problems.

    A girl will be called as Mother after this phase only.

    be happy and try to make others be happy.
     
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    thegirlygirl Platinum IL'ite

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    Hey!

    This sounds like you are preparing a strong defence base for some huge battle that you are about to fight.

    Where did you form this impression from? Is it from the common rants and raves you hear here.

    Trust me, there are enough women here who count their in laws as blessings.

    You could try reading the story of SuNaa. She has an adorable MIL.
     
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  5. sweetestshweta

    sweetestshweta Gold IL'ite

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    I faced two major problems-MIL and SIL..
    Still battling..
     
  6. sumanrathi

    sumanrathi IL Hall of Fame

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    Let her get good MIL & SIL with our wishes :)
     
  7. sweetestshweta

    sweetestshweta Gold IL'ite

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    Amen..
    But did I say she shouldn't get:confused2:
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    The negativity air of "reading IL-forums as a single girl" effect?
    1. Marriage is sh*t (Nandita, he (not a typo) will be happy if you endorse this)
    2. Inlaws are abusive
    3. SILs are demons.

    Afterunion - just relax and enjoy the marriage. Dont imagine 'typical IL threads abt inlaws and SH (stupid H)' as representative of the whole Indian world. Imagination abt problems, before marriage :) Stay positive.
     
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    FromMars Gold IL'ite

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    Why don't you change the question and create a new post with the following:

    What are the joyful things you have done after getting married?

    This way, you can also strive to do them in your life. Its much easier to set a positive path and strive for it, as compared to figuring out all the negative pitfalls and staying out of it.

    The only thing you have to fear, is fear itself. - FDR
     
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    Roar Gold IL'ite

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    People share sad stories on internet and happy ones with their spouses. One rant per user will make up a million rants here ;). Many of us are happy and here to support the few suffering dils... married life is wonderful!..
     
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