Hello all I want to know , what tests I should take before preparing for pregnancy. How can I prepare my body ? I suffer from P COD and I am in my late twenties. Its my first pregnancy and I am planning to conceive in the next few months. Is cesarean safe ? what are the side effects? What are the tests a male should take ? How can I find out if I am Rh - or RH+. I am overweight , will that affect my pregnancy? I will be visiting a doctor next month. Thought of posting about this and getting to know more from you ladies. Is there any ayurvedic medicine I can take to increase my chances? I also want to have a little fair kid (atleast wheatish). what can I do ? My parents and I am fair but my husband is little wheatish .His one parent is fair and other one is darker than him. what are the chances I get a fair kid? All in the people in family are fair. My dear husband suffered a lot since hes dark . I don't want my kid to go through all that especially if its not a boy. Óne of my friends said there two colours of sperm. light liquid and dark liquid. If the male has dark colour sperm all his kids will be dark it seems. Is this true?