hello ladies, Recently I posted about my friend colleague about her ID lost issue luckily her court date got postponed so she applied for new one so she will get her new licence before the court date .. On the day I drove her she looked very dull I thought she is nervous but felt something is not good I just asked her is she is fine ..? She started crying and informed me about her marital issues .. I know her husband just saw him 3 times so don’t know about him much but looks like from her story he is a monsters oral abuser .. She work here full time with me no account on her own all salary goes to joint account from there he will transfer to his account .. she doesn’t know the account credentials he kept for himself .. all she have is credit cards to fill gas n eat if needed ..every purchase she does even $1 she keeps receipt since husband asks them .. She is bit poor in driving care from small town looked nice in the past can’t belive how her appearance changed after marriage due to the continuous oral abuse mental torture from her husband .. When I asked why the only answer I got from her is for kids .. he has two kids one kindergarten same in my kids school n one toddler ..she thinks she can’t taka care of them alone in this country if she separate.. Coming to the point I asked her to do more driving practice she told who will help her she took two driving classes already not a bad driver but unfortunately made an accident where no one injured .. but it’s a collision now the case is in court she thought of paying the ticket husband refused .. The only source to practice her driving is her husband .. she told he always complaints about her not having engineering degree not driving well and come for practice .. when she goes with him he starts all the oral abuse while driving so she couldn’t concentrate end up crying while driving even though he will not stop .. I felt really sad after hearing everything .. u told I coundt belive all this as he looked like a nice person to me .. then she payed voice record that she recorded their conversation .. am totally on shock he was talking like a slum person using all nasty works I count even write here .. I dint know why she is taking all this **** in the name of kids n not able to drive efficiently.. What you guys suggest .. she wants to resign be work at home mom take care of kids husband said if she leaves job he will divorce her n prove her careless mother showing her driving accident record that she is not fit in the society .. he clearly told the record I will make you to go to jail will get the witness n talk on their behalf sothat you won’t get kids coustidy you will not get alimony .. Now she is literally shaking saying she won’t go to court as husband said he will put her in Jain n take kids away from her .. she is literally crying I will go back to India all I want is my kids I don’t want money which he is not accepting..I am clueless told her to divorce that bloody but she can’t live here alone am sure she is very weak person physically mentally .. What are her choices ..? Divorce she can’t take care of kids alone can leave India with kids they are US citizens She doesn’t have any money left till today no support from parents they are old dependent on her brother .. My blood boiling feeling like punching on her husbands face such a dirty fellow he is .. I thought of helping her in driving but my work is very busy with two kids not able to do much for her other than In emergencies.. Please suggest something ..