First let me tell about myself. I am 45 years .Presently i am living in Dubai living here 15 years immediately next month i moved here from India. Ours is second mariage . I am still childless and my husband (divorce) has.two.kids from previous marriage.. one son now.22 years now living and doing business with father. . Since starting i was craving for.love security nothing i found till now . He is domimating control freak. But as till now. I didnt get courage.to speak.and never demand anything. Now its become normal for me and i think all relations between couples will be like.this. He is v.bad tempered but now it seems.normal to me. and now only with his hand gesture i understands what he wants. I.kept maid.for cleaning. Other basic food, shelter ,friends with relatives its all normal. He never shared anything mentally financially phsically with me. As i am bearing all.my expenses and i didnt ask also due to my self respect. Since many years we had no physical relations and intimacy also. I have.these.things but to.whom.i share.with ? If i.ask.or say anything he became angry and becomes offensive and turn.the things cleverly so i forgot what actually the topic was for!! My sister she knows all matter but she is.spritual and family person always speaks positive words listens and sympathise with me , send quotes and again days comes.and goes like this its 15 years passed. Now his son grown up he joined i dont have any issue only changes i found is food and kitchen time is increased. Now after 15 years recenly I found one shocking unbelievable.secret in his mobile. He has.many girl.friends affairs. and 2 ladies i know thats his friends.wife.only from our city when i read all i litterly became.faint. i think.how.fool i am . I have taken snapshots and now proof i have to show to this world. But i am still afraid to take any step . I cried also for many days and shared with my sister who is spritual again make me feel strong for the time being. But in practically pls.friends.advice me what should i do ?? What are your views . What is correct and not ? I have all proofs with me and if i want in a second i can ruin by reveal all his secrets to society his relatives and those two ladies who are also cheating their partner and kids. Now practically what should i do. I am suffering inside as i dont know what is right and wrong ? If you were.in my place what step you would take ?