Pls help to come out of this mental torture

goldenduck · Jun 17, 2010

Dear,My hubby is quite handsome, loving & caring{for all who is around him as always wife is taken for granted}& very popular among all around him.But the problem is these days he is involved with some other lady who came in contact while his hubby was trying for job though him.He made his wife a tool.She is too younger to him. now they r in regular connect .When i inquired he admitted it and tried to convince that it'll not be continued but also he gets terrible when i say single word against her.Tell me what to do? shell i believe him & forget every thing? Pls ans immediately.Im going terrible condition.

Tridev · Jun 17, 2010

Re: Pls help to come out of this mental torcher

Calm down lady, your post was bit difficult to read and understand. There is no volcano that is erupting that you are worrying of extinction. If he has agreed that he will not continue then give him some time and see, but he should also not feel you are sitting on that and are taking it easy. So if you see something unusual you can try to point it out in a way he can understand. As things progress you will have to keep making your plans to tackle life..

goldenduck said: ↑

Dear,My hubby is quite handsome, loving & caring{for all who is around him as always wife is taken for granted}a& very popular among all around him.But the problem is these days he is involved with some other lady who came in contact while his hubby was trying for job though
him.He made his wife a tool.She is too younger to him. now they r in regular connect .When i inquired he admitted it and tried to to convince that it'll not be continued but also he gets terrible when i say single word against her.Tell me what to do? shell i believe him & forget every thing? Pls ans immediately.Im going terrible condition.
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rosegirl · Jun 17, 2010

You need to be more clear.

how long are you married to this person ?
Is it a love or arranged marriage ?
Is this lady a friend who helped to get a job ?
If she is just a friend, why are you blowing things out of proportion ?
What sort of email/chat/sms exchanges they had that made u furious ?

Can you elaborate pls

JGVR · Jun 17, 2010

Just believe ur hubby and give him some time and check whether he keeps up his promise...if your guy understands that you are totally with him and trust his word then he will reciprocate the same favour for you.