1. How to Build Positivity in Married Life? : Click Here
    Dismiss Notice
  2. Would you like to join the IL team? See open jobs!
    Dismiss Notice
  3. Liked anything that you read here? You may nominate it as the Finest Posts!
    Dismiss Notice
  4. What can you teach someone online? Tell us here!
    Dismiss Notice
  5. If someone taught you via skype, what would you want to learn? Tell us here!
    Dismiss Notice

Pls help to come out of this mental torture

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by goldenduck, Jun 17, 2010.

  1. goldenduck

    goldenduck New IL'ite

    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    Dear,My hubby is quite handsome, loving & caring{for all who is around him as always wife is taken for granted}& very popular among all around him.But the problem is these days he is involved with some other lady who came in contact while his hubby was trying for job though him.He made his wife a tool.She is too younger to him. now they r in regular connect .When i inquired he admitted it and tried to convince that it'll not be continued but also he gets terrible when i say single word against her.Tell me what to do? shell i believe him & forget every thing? Pls ans immediately.Im going terrible condition.
     
    Last edited: Jun 17, 2010
    Loading...

  2. Tridev

    Tridev Silver IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,284
    Likes Received:
    28
    Trophy Points:
    83
    Gender:
    Male
    Re: Pls help to come out of this mental torcher

    Calm down lady, your post was bit difficult to read and understand. There is no volcano that is erupting that you are worrying of extinction. If he has agreed that he will not continue then give him some time and see, but he should also not feel you are sitting on that and are taking it easy. So if you see something unusual you can try to point it out in a way he can understand. As things progress you will have to keep making your plans to tackle life..

     
    Last edited: Jun 17, 2010
  3. rosegirl

    rosegirl Bronze IL'ite

    Messages:
    592
    Likes Received:
    21
    Trophy Points:
    48
    Gender:
    Female
    You need to be more clear.

    how long are you married to this person ?
    Is it a love or arranged marriage ?
    Is this lady a friend who helped to get a job ?
    If she is just a friend, why are you blowing things out of proportion ?
    What sort of email/chat/sms exchanges they had that made u furious ?

    Can you elaborate pls
     
  4. JGVR

    JGVR Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    999
    Likes Received:
    674
    Trophy Points:
    188
    Gender:
    Female
    Just believe ur hubby and give him some time and check whether he keeps up his promise...if your guy understands that you are totally with him and trust his word then he will reciprocate the same favour for you.
     
  5. aruna_077

    aruna_077 Senior IL'ite

    Messages:
    385
    Likes Received:
    4
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Female
    She should wait......

    but how long??
     

Share This Page