I m working mom, married for more than 20 years living abroad. My husband and in laws are so crazy after my sil, keep giving dowry every month. She is married for 18 years. My husband send all our hard earned saving for her marriage. She had very grand wedding. After wedding also my in laws give her gold coin, luxury vacations and many expensive gifts for which my husband pays bill from my saving. In laws give gold coins on sil birthday, anniversary, her husband's and kids birthday, every festival like Diwali, rakhi, holi, navratri etc. They were living in one small room whole life and had no money for their mefical treatment. When I argue show my frustration they say it's tradition. Whatever they have earned its for their daughter blah blah. We are just their atm machine. Me and my husband had so many fights over this. We are close to 50 but still have whole house loan, car loan. If I divorce my kids will get affected. I m working with so many health problems and feel anxious about our future. What should I do?