Please Help Me

Hi all,

Again i am with one problem. I got a proposal through Bharat Matrimony; He was in UK that time. He said he is separated; they have applied for mutual consent. Within three week, he also told me that he have a pre mature ejaculation problem, so is there any problem for me. He is also interested in second baby as I already have a daughter. He also said his wife had insulted me for this and she also told him that he is not a eligible man. I was fine with that. One day i got a call from a lady she claimed that she is his wife and he is simply cheating me. She is also in UK. She said she is three months pregnant and she doesn’t like her husband this type of behaviour so she is planning for divorce once her sister ‘s wedding is over. She also said that his parents won’t agree for a girl with a child so my marriage will not happen. He might say some reason after sometime and go away. She also said he will meet me and might use me leave. Then again in the second day she called me and told that he is very good with her this is just a hobby or addict for girls that is why he is doing all this.

I asked that guy what is this, he said no that girl is like this she had done this before marriage also, when we saw this girl i said no, and we started looking for other girl but this girl was so adamant and my parents also forced me to get married to this girl so i got married. He said wait for four months i will come and meet you in person and then you decided, i said ok.

But he used to call me every day and chat also. Once we had some argument and he was upset and said that i only will come back. i just left it. But he used to chat with me regularly. One day he himself called me and was fine. But he said that you don’t call me as i am busy in work, you just message me i will call you. After a month’s time he called me from new number, i did not ask him about that and chat timing was also different. On the same day by mistake my daughter dialed his wife’s number and got disconnected. That female again called and asked me about the call i told her that by mistake it had happen, but she was asking whether i am still chatting with him i said no and disconnected the call. I even told this guy that this had happen, he was upset and asked why are you doing this i said my mistake this had happen, and he said he don’t trust me. i left it. After that also he called me once in a week and chat was there every day and it was also normal. He calls me in different time, i asked him once why are calling me in this time as you will be sleeping now, he said i will go back to sleep. But i was bit suspicious but I was thinking due project he had gone and he might to India as he had told he will come in April[FONT=&quot]. In one call he asked whether i told girl that this guy won’t have a baby. I said i did not tell anything like that. i only told if he is fraud he will suffer for that mistake, he asked me what is there to suffer, if something goes wrong and we are not marrying what will happen, I said that is different, if you wanted doing is different and we left that argument. Then one Friday i got a called from different number i missed it as i was driving. Then i tried that foreign number but got a message number not in use. i thought it might he i messaged to his new number and tried but got a messaged that not reachable. Then i had a number from where he had called me last then i found that it is US number and it was a hotel. One whole week he did not call and no chat also. I also found that he had blocked me in Chat. I got angry and left it. One night i got a call from him asking for one guy, i said i dont know that guy. I asked what happen he said somebody had called his wife’s friends place. so he had called that guy to enquire and that guy had told my name. I said i don’t know anybody and i did not do it. I also asked where are you he did not tell that for some time and he accept that he is not in UK and gone to Canada and also apologized for not informing me, but I know he is in US. He said please don’t call me for three months i only will come back to you. I said what this is why are doing this. He said he has lot of problem so he will solve it and get back to me. i said you asked me to wait for four months that is over now, and again you are asking for three months to call only and you are telling you don’t know when will you come to India. He said please this is a request. i just left it. I mailed that girl asking why she is playing this game with me. She called me from US and said the she did not do anything somebody had called her friend that is why that guy called you might. She said that they had come to US long back, but she called me from UK two weeks ago, i said leave it. i asked about her pregnancy she said it is four months now, but in Jan she said it is already three months, in April she is telling it is four months. I said OK and left it. two days after he came online and asked about that guy i said i dont know and he said leave it you are innocent may be that girl is playing game. After that no call and no chat. I thought of mailing him that his wife had called me but did not feel like doing it.

I checked his native also, he is from that place i also saw his house.

So please friends let me know what should i do now. I like this guy but confused now. I know i should leave it, but in one corner if he is really genuine why should i miss him as he was very fond of my daughter. He often enquires about my daughter. Once she was not well, he pinged in the morning to check how she is and called spoke to her. His wife is also telling lot of lies.

So please help me.


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