Please Guide Me

Hi SGBV
I completely understand u bcoz i have been in the similar situation and i had these unknown fears of BM and husband blindly following PILs. but fortu ately those were only my fears and situation was bad but not to the extent of BM and other thing which i was seriously scared of.
Comg to ur problem i believe first u should b after ur husband for getting a job..He is not working and he has all the time to interact and go to his psrents and get entraped in this BM and getting convinced to do all those rituals. So in addition to therapy convince him for taking up a job and keeping himself busy.