I was thinking about this issue since almost a month and I was not able to decide what to do. I hope u all can give suggestions on what to do. My husband has 2 sisters elderones. After marriage, in some conversation I told DH that Ilike his sis2 rather than sis1. B'coz sis1 is arrogant nd always puts finger in every single matter in the house, nd also wants everybody to follow her desicissons(everybody at IL's place does that :rant). DH was very close with his SIS2(she lives in us), he used to share everything with her and it continued after our marriage also(which I opposed). DH while talking with SIS2,he told her that my wife likes u a lot than SIS1. This SIS2 told this thing with SIS1 and became a very huge issue. So, I told sorry to SIS1. It was like 6 yrs ago. I thought they forgot about it. But, in our recnt trip to India also my IL's was pointing me about that issue and arguing that u shouldn't have done that etc:bonk. Coming to my cuurent problem, every year DH used to send money to his sisters. But this year I thought since I am going for 3 months vacation we will buy sarees for them. After DH came to India we showed sarees to SIS1. but she was rejecting to take them,who wants these sarees?:rant did u asked us before u brought them etc. I told to my IL's that I am taking whatever they to gift to me and my kids and they r not asking us whether we want money or clothes? we r sponsering her sosn's education since 5 yrs it is around 70,000 per yr.This was happend in SIS1's house. we were in hurry Then DH told later we will discuss about that and I told her bye and came to IL's house. After somedays, SIS1 came to IL's house and she didn't talked properly to me. when they were leaving to there city, she didn't told bye to me, she told bye to her brother(my DH)nd I was stunned. After that I was also not talking to her. The day we were coming to US she came to IL's place nd I didn't told her bye. I am not talking to her on the phone also. Before also if DH gives phone to me then only she used to talk to me. I don't know what happend but at last moment she took those sarees nd I came to know about this at the airport only. sorry for the long post. My question is should I continue the same kind of relationship with her? or should I forget nd talk wiht her on the phone.her wedding annivarsary is coming soon. If I won't tlak to her then it will effect my relationship with IL's (I don't have a good relationship with them)...nd SIL2. can u suggest what u think of it.