Hi everyone, I am living with my parents from last 6 months. during the period I met wid DH once n talked few times. we met at the mediation cell in the presence of our relatives. basicaly i am against of involving the relatives or anyone n have a chat one -o- one. but both of the parties are high on emotions so they joined. after the meeting he called n we talked about 5 hrs. he repeated the same things n wants me to come back in same circumstances which i denied ofcourse. I told him my conditions .the chat was unproductive n he said he will never ever call me again call me(though he messaged the next day ) now some daz back my uncle called him at his home. I was not there. my dh said lies n opposed the exact things which I asked him as my conditions. I mean he just brainwashed my uncle too. for eg I asked him to have atleast one meal wid me as a family. he said to my uncle that ria dont make dinner or breakfast so i had to eat out:spin. It is a big fat lie. but my uncle trusted him as i was not there to explain. there are so many examples like this. Now my problem is that after goin through 6 years of physical , verbal , emotional abuse I want to quit. But my family wants to give this marriage an another chance. I am doin this for their sake but dont want to explain everyone again n again that i am right , he is lying , he is acting bla bla. My uncle said that in next meeting he will talk to both of us face to face. Ok! but again this tamasha n same lies. I am fed up. should I refuse to go for second meeting??? I am hopeless about him. or should face him n explain everyone what the reality is. he is saying these things to my other relatives too.should I askfor his explanations in front of every one. My uncle is educated but conservative so he is playing that card wid him. one more thing , why he wants me to come back as it clearly shows that he have no respect for the relationship n he is still hurting me. and why he is telling rubbish n making me more angry if he realy wants me back???