Hi ... I had a intercaste marriage with a lot of drama, but inlaws “showed” that they have now accepted us. :kissCame here to visit us in US. Caste and class difference seems to have really messed things up. I agree i was at fault at many places coz didnt know that as per them its “catastrophic” to do certain things. I should have known and I am definitely at fault at that. :bonkAll things were blown out of proportion. They didn’t ignore even the smallest things. They stopped talking to me, and avoiding me in the same house. I tried to talk to them and apologized to them. They infact exploded and abused me abt me, my husband, my marriage, my parents and rest of my family. :rant:rantI remained calm. However little i tried to share my point of view, my words were picked up and butchered and thrown back at me, indicating how dare i tell my inlaws this. I still apologized multiple times, but even my apology became an item of taunt and they didnt accept it. I tried to be normal with them inspite of this, and told my husband to not tell his parents anything. But they continued ignoring me in my own house. Finally hurt immensely, i stopped trying to still be the nice dil, and stopped trying to make conversation. After a week they once again exploded, indicating i dont have even basic respect for them. :rant:rant:rant:rantAgreed i did that coz my brain was messed up with all previous drama and the hatred they have been showing towards me. I apologized once during the explosion, but it seems at the end of the discussion they were expecting me to fall to their feet and plead guilty, which i didnt coz i knew they would pick words from my apology too and heat up the discussion. Now their ignoring me is getting worse. And i see her playing some small tricks around the house too. :boo: My husband is getting crushed at both sides and doesnt know what to do. They head back soon. My question to this group is should i fall down to their feet when they are leaving and take up all the blame and rub my nose on their feet to fix things? :bowdown Knowing them, i know it wont help to a great extent, and they would insult me further, but atleast they will leave with the satisfaction that i apologized. Also, my husband will probably feel better if I do so.