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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by charanya147, Jun 15, 2017.

  1. charanya147

    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    Hi ils,
    Im curious to know, who's photos your spouse has in his wallet......is it yours/kids or his parents. .......please give your answers. ......


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  2. Naari

    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Old photo of mine and his.. but I think it was kept a long time ago & not removed. I think he would be ok without any pics, meaning it's not intentionally retained I think
     
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    sbonigala Platinum IL'ite

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    As long as the photo is not any other female, I honestly cant be bothered if its mine, kids, his parents, God's. :) :)
     
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    Sandycandy IL Hall of Fame

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    Lol same here !
     
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    SunPa Platinum IL'ite

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    All of the above , haha.

    And I have God's photo. He doesnt.
    But he is the religious one, not me.
     
  6. Naari

    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Hey, I am not sure why you ask this question. But I would like to add that men are different from women in that they don't necessarily like to show or keep their feelings in plain display like keeping pics of loved one or setting loved ones pics as wallpaper on phone.. actually, my husband has never even posted/set as profile pic my /dd's pic on FB.. he is just not into PDA.. I am not sure why you ask, but I hope that makes you feel better..
     
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  7. charanya147

    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks for the reply dear. ......actually my friend is depressed to see her hubby having his parents photos in spite of married for many years. ...she wants her or kids photos to be replaced. ......i told her its your possessiveness makes you sad.......she asked me if you were in my position you would know my feelings. ..thats made me feel ...is that im wrong?. ...so that I posted it. .......she too is in IL....i asked her to follow the thread. ....so that she might get some clarities from the ladies.......

    Thanks
     
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    Sandycandy IL Hall of Fame

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    Charanya, I think you are right, your friend shouldn't feel upset about hubby having parents pic in his wallet. It probably doesn't even mean much to him to have the pics there . My husband's relationship with his parents is independent of my relationship with him. So it wouldn't matter to me if he had his parents pic . I have in fact encouraged him to have his parents pic on his work desk. So not a big deal IMO.

     
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    rachaputi Platinum IL'ite

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    Mine and his mother's photos he has in wallet. I didn't point that but I feel jealous whenever I see that :). You know instinct, I can't help :p
     
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    Totally Agree with sandy candy , these are small things & mutually exclusive relationships.. maybe he keeps parents pics because they are away from him.. there is no need to replace anyone, she will always be his wife not anyone else.
     
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