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Personality-Development

Discussion in 'Education & Personal Growth' started by padmaiyangar, Oct 28, 2007.

  1. padmaiyangar

    padmaiyangar Bronze IL'ite

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    hello,
    while studying on how to develop personality I come across the following fine tips which may be very uesful to our member to develop good personality
    Nine ways to make people Like You!

    1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
    2. Give honest, sincere appreciation.
    3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
    4. Become genuinely interested in other people.
    5. Smile.
    6. Remember that a man’s name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
    7. Be a good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves.
    8. Talk in terms of the other mans interest.
    9.Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.


    Twelve ways to make people think in your way

    1. Show respect for the others persons opinions. Never tell a man he is wrong.
    2. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
    3. If you are wrong admit it quickly and emphatically.
    4. Begin in a friendly way.
    5. Get the other person saying Yes, yes immediately.
    6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
    7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his.
    8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
    9. Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.
    10. Appeal to nobler motives.
    11. Dramatize your ideas.
    12. Throw down a challenge.


    Nine ways to bring around people without giving offence

    1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
    2. Call attention to peoples mistakes indirectly.
    3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
    4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
    5. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement.
    6. Let the other man save his face.
    7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
    8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
    9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

    Four ways to Analyze worry

    1. Get all the facts.
    2. Weigh all the fats-then come to a decision.
    3. Once a decision is reached, act.
    4. Write the answers of the following questions.
    a) What is the problem?
    b) What are the causes of the problem?
    c) What are the possible solutions?


    Four ways to Overcome worry

    1. Live in day-tight compartments.
    2. Face the trouble the following ways.
    a) Ask yourself what is the worst that can possibly happen?
    b) Prepare mentally to accept the worst.
    c) Try to improve on the worst.
    3. Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health.
    4. Apply the law of averages in your favour.


    Six ways to break the worry habit

    1. Keep busy.
    2. Don’t fuss about trifles.
    3. Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries.
    4. Co-operate with the inevitable.
    5. Decide just how much anxiety a thing
    6. Don’t worry about the past.


    Seven ways to Pease and Happiness

    1. Fill your mind with thoughts of peace, courage, health, hope and prayer.
    2. Never try to get even with your enemies.
    3. Expect ingratitude.
    4. Count your blessings-not your troubles.
    5. Do not imitate others.
    6. Try to profit from your losses.
    7. Create happiness for others.
    Seven ways to face criticism and grow strong

    1. Remember that unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment.
    2. Do the very best you can.
    3. Analyze your own mistakes and criticize yourself.
    4. Learn to relax at your work.
    5. Apply the following good working habits.
    a) Clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem at hand.
    b) Do things in order of their importance.
     
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  2. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    Very informative post, Padma, which can be put into daily use to achieve 'personal development'.
    Thanks for this post.

    sriniketan
     
  3. Sonia_Couling

    Sonia_Couling New IL'ite

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    Thanks for your tips .it is very important for me and i am searching this type of information on the net ,i think the success is also a primary issue for the life. To become a successful person in your life, you need to activate your personal power of influencing. Because the personal power of influence is the only way to get success in life. When you will become the master in this you will get success in professional as well as in personal life too. You can influence people with the help of strong leadership and effective communication. I have seen many people who have changed their life and become a successful person with the help of this only. For this I have found a great site. It provides 10-part email course every week. That is free of cost and it’s an open door coaching. With the help of it you can influence people through your communication and get success easily in your goals by your beliefs, thought, and behaviors to fully support those goals. I have used it and I think it’s really very useful for everyone. It is from the author of Blueprint for success Debora McLaughlin, Stephen R. Covey and Ken Blanchard. I believe the information will help you and you will get success in your life.

    Good luck for future!
     
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  4. Rupi

    Rupi New IL'ite

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    Very useful tip Padma...

    Keep posting some more useful tips like this...
     
  5. sundarusha

    sundarusha Gold IL'ite

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    Very useful ways, Padma. I am planning to put one tip a day to use and develop!
     
  6. nini82

    nini82 Senior IL'ite

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    Good one!
    Sometime little little things are very significant!
     
  7. Oviya

    Oviya Silver IL'ite

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    Very good ones, Padma..

    Have to remember all the times..

    Thanks for sharing..
     
  8. selviik

    selviik Senior IL'ite

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    Padma,

    Very informative post.Keep them coming...

    Thanks a lot.
     
  9. smith21181

    smith21181 Senior IL'ite

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    Hi all,

    these tips r really useful in professional life & personal life too...thanks for posting.

    Sonia ... would u mind telling me what is exactly the site u r talking abt ?
    Is it for 10 days ? & It is free of cost ..right.
    plz reply me ASAP ..i am waiting for ur favourable reply
     
  10. shilpa12345

    shilpa12345 Senior IL'ite

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    hi ..... thanks alot. u have given me the manra how todeal with others thank u so much.
     

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