Hi, [[Anitha is an imaginary character]] Anitha is very choosy and selective about her dress,outfits.She insists on perfect(200%) match blouse for any saree.This does not mean others don’t have a dress sense.The difference is they don’t lay much importance on that.Everybody wish to look good, feel good.Normally we are not crazy about that.When anitha finds some one in her office or her relatives who wears kurtis which is not an exact match for the bottom pants or a blouse which does not accurately (not approximately)go with the saree ,out of her intolerance she immediately reacts to them and pour a hundred suggestions on the importance of how to look fit, maintaining dress code and the list goes on. All that is fine.I really appreciate her attitude of smart dressing ,her beauty consciousness which in turn boosts our self esteem,confidence. But??Not at the cost of giving our total self towards it. I not only point this aspect alone,whatever be the case let us strike a balance on it.Why we rely on it completely???Anitha want everything to be orderly in life.She expects perfect cleanliness and organizes tasks in such a way.She wants her towels ,hand kerchiefs to be kept inside the cup board only and not to be positioned somewhere except for the time it has to dry otherwise it should not hang on the clothes line in the balcony.Her pillow covers should match bed spreads, curtains , not relaxing her rules atleast for a day.The painbombs must be placed only inside the medicine cabinet when taken outside ,the postion should not be change even mistakenly . Anitha cares even for small things in life,takes active interest .So her life goes this way.When she distributes her marriage invitation to her friends in the office,every one was eagerly awaiting for the occasion.Not for relaxing or enjoying but wants to know how her selection goes in choosing a life partner who expects perfectness and exact match for all things.It is a climax which is long awaited and expected by the audience(who were adviced and guided by her ).On anitha’s marriage occasion, her friends did not know how to react when she introduced the bride groom.Every one expected the groom may be handsome,good looking,well dressed as anitha is ,but the scenario was entirely different. Here the stress and emphasis is not on the bridegroom but on anitha’s selection.He looked dark, stout wearing a dull colour shirt and a dark colour pant which is not a perfect match to the shirt.What went wrong?Does anitha really liked the groom, that can never be the case.Don’t look at the factors or situations which forced her to accept the marriage proposal.Let that be aside.A person who thinks and acts sharply in every small situation in day today life,failed to choose a partner which matches her requirements . I again stress that there will be different views on this.Like you may argue that anitha would have really liked the groom.But that is not what I wanted to convey.I stress on the attitude of anitha who look for small things carefully and gave up her taste, choices ,ideas on marriage which is an important moment in life .