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perculiar behaviors!!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by aparnaram, Sep 29, 2010.

  1. aparnaram

    aparnaram Gold IL'ite

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    Hi all...

    have u ever faced any perculiar statements or behaviors from ur close family members.. yes i had & i was ordered in that way too...

    that was : within one yr of my marriage my FIL said 2 my Dh like.. where he go personally or officially (my DH will b touring often) he shud strictly take him and not his wife any time any where without his permission... :rant

    there was no oppos from my MIL...i still dont know what made him 2 think like that nor what he'll do with his son in hotel room after marriage...:biglaugh

    that was a funny unforgettable statement by my FIL...

    if u had face anything like this pl share here...

    Thanks
     
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  2. sadwife

    sadwife Gold IL'ite

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    Your FIL is CRAZY!! :biglaugh

    Im shocked to hear a father wants to follow his son wherever he goes let be official or personal trips. :rant
     
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    sita2223 Bronze IL'ite

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    SIL's view -

    Her brother (my DH) should NOT care for me/kids but care for her and in future, her DH and kids.

    Basically, in my DH's family for generations DILs have suffered because the Hs spend all their time and money for their sisters and sister's families. My MIL too suffered this way. Now the tradition is expected to pass on. So SIL has high hopes that my DH should be responsible for her and her future H/kids.

    Yeah right!! tsk not gonna happen.
     
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  4. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    Suppose if any topic comes up like between my MIL and husband,suppose in case sudden death or anything,what is about my family?

    My MIL would say,oh dear son never every worry about that.God will take care of it.

    The morning she wokes up to the nigth she sleeps,only her worry is who will take care of her, if her health is not good and who will take care of her.This is the main worry for her.Don't she know that god will take care of it?

    When I start my job in US,I need to drive long distance and that't the first time I am going to drive on the freeway for a long distance and me and my husband discussing about that taking train for some distance.My MIL told me ,never ever worry about that and god will take care of it.

    But she never travels alone on airplane even though she has some company.Everytime her son has to pick her up and drops her off.
     
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    Drpreethis Gold IL'ite

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    :D you made me smile, Priya !
     
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    Philosopher New IL'ite

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    LOL. you rock.
     
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    pra319 New IL'ite

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    Re: perculiar behaviors!!!

    After 20 years of my marriage, when we were visiting his parents my FIL asked my DH , you have a new car, new house, why this (pointing to me) is the same? and he was serious.
    paru
     
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    incarnation Silver IL'ite

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    aparnaram ....ha ha ha...crazy fellow FIL....

    my MIL said : since you have done a love marriage , it is a "paap" (sin) you have done and you have to cover up for it like anything..

    when I questioned what about your son , he is also eqaully paapi(sinner) ...She said no , the onus is only on DIL.... ha..ha ha..crazy...

    And interesting fact of all.. My MIL had a love marriage , which MIL's sis and MIL's Mom told my parents as they are friends after they met in my marriage out of similar views and good nature...(isnt this interesting too) BUT my MIL , neither my DH agrees to it and always say it is dodge the question...but it is clear as MIL and FIL are from different caste from their times and she says she is of higher caste and hence the best bahu in her family... LOL... she always is fighting with her co-sisters and SIL constantly.....

    well i have many such funny crazy and hurting statements from MIL and FIL...ha ha ha..now i just feel like laughing on them..
     
  9. sadwife

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    I am a graduate and not working.
    My MIL said, "if i'm still young, i'll buy your degree from you and go out and work with your degree"

    she'll be behind the bars when they find out she's making use of my degree!! :biglaugh
     
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    Are you sure he was serious????????????
    First when I read your reply I thought that it was a joke and laughed but when I read that he was serious, I was dumbstruck!
     

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