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  1. Jun 8, 2016 #1
    ashwinim3006

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    Hi everyone am new member to IL. Thought would pour out my inner feelings here. My DH n myself are doctors by profession. Married for 3 yrs. Ttc since 2yrs.Am PCOS wid hypothyroidism on treatment, 3 cycles of failed clomid, 1 cycle failed letrozole n 3 failed iui with injectable. Started display course of treatment 2yrs ago with no success. Am studying post graduation but frankly not able to focus on it due to this issue. Both are fond of kids. In-laws think v r too busy with our professional lives but dat is not so am trying my best but things are not going the way u want to. Feel depressed at tyms. Ppl say am a doctor n I need to be strong but I feel amn I a human first??? Everybody asks us wen vl have a baby n it kills me everytym. Every cat n dog gives me tips n advices to conceive as if v r not trying. Presently am on weight loss regime, thyroxine,metformin n ocps for my irregular cycles n il b reviewed after 3 months. Plz Plz help me out. I feel so so hopeless at times. I can't vent it out to anybody so I joined here for ur blessings n support. N one more thing is am in a joint family so I have to hear this everyday from in-laws.
     
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  2. Jun 8, 2016 #2
    Agony

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    Hello !
    I understand ur turmoil. Just want to assure u that u will conceive eventually and have ur LO.
    All this feeling of insecurity and uncertainties r natural when ur ttc.
    My best advise would be to postpone any form of procedure until u complete ur post graduation.
    I understand PG in itself if tough and ur adding the stress of ttc with it.
    Stop worrying about what others have to say ! It's ur life and n choice ..
    Tell them that ur busy with studies and will think about a baby once u finish.
    The society pressure is something u should deal with boldly, don't get affected with them .. They actually don't care!

    U know the reason for delay in ur case, pcos & thyroid.
    R u on metformin ?
    Please keep ur weight under control.
    Don't allow urself to put on weight.
    Try naturally until u finish without keeping any expectations.
    God willing u will conceive soon. If not u can always consult a specialist once ur done with ur studies.
    Be patient.. It will happen at the right time :)
    Baby dust to u
     
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    I have no medical advice.

    But just popped in to wish you good luck! Your prayers will be answered very soon. Sticky baby dust to you!
     
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    Hi Ashwini,

    Am in the same boat.. TTC for the past 18 months.. Can understand how u feel.. But dont worry.. Everything is going to be fine some day.. And that day is not so far.. Wishing you all success. :)
     
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    Thank u agony, i had laproscopy 2yrs back for blocked tube one side n its clear now. After failed iui doc says its unexplained infertility coz DH reports normal. My thyroid reports r normal too.Dat hurts me. When i really have no problem den y is God punishing me :( i have gained 5kgs more weight in last 2 months n my pcos has flared up. Am trying keep my weight on track. If possible plz suggest some diet n special food stuffs for pcos n hypothyroidism. Am fond of sweets :'( stopped eatieating now.
     
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    Thank u for that words. Means a lot for me right now.
     
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    Thanku dear. Remember me in ur prayers.:)
     
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    Pcos itself can be the reason why ur not conceiving.
    Try to lose weight.

    Eat healthy. And engage in any sort of exercise whether it's the gym or just walking for 30-45 mins.

    Even when everything is right, people take take to conceive.

    Stress is also a big factor which can mess ur body.

    Be patient and keep trying.
    U will eventually conceive one day.

    Baby dust to u .. :)
     
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    @ashwinim3006

    Hugs to you :) I know how bad we feel when someone asks such questions :(

    i have an suggestion, i know it is tough to forgot TTC and the journey. But just an thought forgot about TTC and concentrate on your studies thinking we will plan after studies.

    IF some one asks, say i am planning after studies. So this should reduce your stress on TTC. Enjoy your study life and spend time to enjoy your life. I feel this will make you pregnant easily while you are doing this activity as you keep trying parallely without looking for any outcomes.

    all the very best, stay focused on studies, without stress LO will come like a miracle :) all the very best dear !
     
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    Thank u Vanicha. Am trying d same focussing on my studies since am in final yeayear. But wen i sit idle such thoughts haunt me . jz struggling with dis daily.
     
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