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Parents, Teachers And Other Adults Are Quick To Punish Kids Instead Of Grow Their Strengths

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by SuiDhaaga, Jan 9, 2021.

  1. SuiDhaaga

    SuiDhaaga Gold IL'ite

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    Why do Adults like to torture kids who are maladjusted?

    One person I know is still traumatized by middle school years. She had no friends but lot of enemies.

    Some boys drew Explicit pictures of her and shared it amongst themselves. She didn't understand how to process this and thought it was normal behavior.

    She took to vandalizing bathroom walls, drawing pictures of people, teachers, janitors and making silly statements about them.

    The school administrators did nothing till one day, in order to try and fit in with cool kids she drew explicit pictures of someone.

    That person had sense and complained to principle. Today she is a successful Ph.D.

    Principle admitted she knew girl was vandalizing bathrooms. Parents and other adults punished her. Father said he had beautiful plans for her life, to take her to settle in India, marry young, have happy, blessed marriage.

    Instead she has no husband, no child, and is trying to find her purpose in life.

    But adults should have asked
    - where did she learn this behavior. Those boys would have been punished. Instead one of them has grown up to be criminal attorney, defending scum if earth who beat their wives, do DUI, expunge juvenile records
    - her to persue art and writing, to express herself and grow her talents in healthy way
    - her to not chase people's approval


    I know another person who is rumored to have broken into a movie theater with his friends, when the owner caught them he did not turn them into the police.

    He made the boys work for his movie theater. One of the boys developed an interest in theatre and acting.

    That boy is Vin Deisel, hero of Fast and Furious movies.


    If movie theatre owner would have punished the boys, do you think they would be remorseful and learn from their mistakes? Do you think they would be successful.

    If anything they would be scum of earth who need that criminal attorney (who drew explicit pictures of female classmate) to set them free!

    Just because you are adult doesn't mean you make children and then discard, shun them when they do something wrong. Because they are not the model, poster child.


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  2. Hopikrishnan

    Hopikrishnan Platinum IL'ite

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    All religions advise how to straighten-out a maladjusted child.
    For example...Deuteronomy 21:18-21
    18 “If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and, though they discipline him, will not listen to them,
    19 then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders at the gates of his city where he lives,
    20 and they shall say to the elders of his city, ‘This our son is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.’
    21 Then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. So you shall purge the evil from your midst, and all Israel shall hear, and fear. [Kids would pray for Dr.Fauci to come and stone them]​

    For NRI who had just moved to a new city (take Peoria, IL as an example), after becoming a member of COSTCO, they will have to find where the Gates of the City are.

    Every religion or some ancient parenting practice offers a list of things to do to have their children behave and conform.
     
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    SuiDhaaga Gold IL'ite

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    When I see your name I know the post has some sort of humor.





    God Created spirituality and made us realize HIM through Yoga and Meditation.

    Humans created Religion to dominate other humans.

    Yeah, I heard a holiday might be named after Dr. Fauci.

    After becoming a member of COSTCO.
     
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    SuiDhaaga Gold IL'ite

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    I thought there would be more replies considering that there are lot of parents on this forum.
     

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