Hello I need help/advise from parents whose kids are now adults (who are born and brought up in USA). How do you deal with your adult kid (age 22) who have boyfriend/girlfriend? They just graduated from college working in good company. It's cultural difference. I don't want to be controlling, orthodox but just worry about daughter's future. Do you allow live in relationship to your adult kids?
I would love to know some suggestions too. My kids are 23 and 19. I get paranoid when I think of this. But best to stay open to what happens. I have been talking to my kids about talking care of parents [which is us] when old. The problems that come with adapting to 2 different cultures. I have had people tell me that they are upset after marrying into a different religion. Love is blind when you are young but when you have kids, it is difficult to raise them. They will be confused with 2 different cultures to follow and not know which one to adapt closely to.
