After a really long time I am visiting this site. Hope all are doing great!! This is about my elder cousin's daughter. My cousin is looking for her alliances and due to some or the other reason it is not matching. My cousin is feeling tensed due to this. The daughter is 25, well educated and working. Recently, the man's side came to meet them. So, as in every arranged marriage settings they saw each other and then they were left alone to talk and interact. It seems the man talked well and they both conversed for long time. Finally, I hear that the match is cancelled. In the course of their conversation, the man said that even after marriage his parents would be his highest priority, they would come first and next his wife. This irked my cousin's daughter and she called it off. My cousin asked me to call her daughter and talk. My neice told me she did not like the way he put his parents first. I asked whats wrong in that? That does not mean he will not care for you. She said "Why did he have to say so specifically. I have not even interacted with his parents yet and he brings them into picture, if this is the case now then I know what after marriage. I do not want to marry a person who cannot see me equally placed with his parents". What do our Ilites say to this? Want to hear from you.