Thanks for the reply sir. This is a good example. I was looking forward for your reply for the topic. You have two grown up children and have lots of experience and knowledge about this. But I was wondering why you have not yet shared anything with us. Please share your experience that can guide new parents to handle their kids.
Thanks. I shall try to accede to your request later. 2. The previous response made in dim light around dusk during a stroll in my backyard. I have overlooked about Which I had just noticed. I am correcting the incorrect thing in my previous response as below: The gov message was HANG HIM. NOT LEAVE HIM. the message sent by telegram to prison superintendent HANG HIM NOT. LEAVE HIM. Regards
Child psychology I am ok you are ok - must read - book on transactional analysis. I presume that KIDS Good or bad Learn from and Learn by imitation Learn by observation Learn by association learn by listening to teacher Learn from parents Learn from kith Learn from kin Learn from electronic gadgets Learn from tv soaps Sequel to all these Is a resultant behaviour In an infant, in a baby, in a child, In a boy, in a girl, In a man, in a woman It follows Parents be careful About their child’s exposure Guard and guide Not goad and conditioned Answer their curiosity The why and how All kids created equal All adults behaviour Their association determines. And so parents where You are with kids. With spouse, I surprised my family friend arrived unannounced. The lady of the house and her two year kid welcomed us with open arms. Spouse offered a Dairy Milk bar to kid Kid looked at her mom’s eyes She received the bar as her mom nod A lady L arrived in casual attire My friend softly let her in Wishing her good morning Kid too wished her “good morning” haltingly The lady L straight went to kitchen Re arranged vessels for cleaning in sink Gathered rubbish in disposal bag kept aside I wondered about The welcome greetings to the domestic help By the host and her kid That is the training For respecting every one as human Imparted to her kid By the lady of the house. Thanks and Regards. God Can be everywhere but as precaution He created moms everywhere to care.
Thanks for the reply sir. This is the exact answer I feel of all the doubts. Be what you want them to be. I too noticed this with my kids. Thanks a lot.
This post deserves more FB. Emeritus NM SON MARRIED but mrs. Sudha N Murthy could not get along with DIL who Harvard Educated lived in affluence from her childhood . That DIL opted out for divorce within few months of their wedding. This I read and heard in media! Geography to geography, child nurturing and child rearing might vary but essential principles are same as per child psychologists. If one’s location changed one has to evolve to suit the local needs and culture and evolve.. It is said child is father of man and discipline comes in pliable age ஐந்தில் வளையாதது ஐம்பதில் வளையுமா? thanks and Regards. God is busy in His Cosmic Lab to refine DNA specification for future BABIES.
There is no class room for lkg or ukg. 2. It is a huge hall where under supervision kids have exposure to safe gadgets and playthings and entire activity their recorded in CCTV which is leisurely reviewed by authorities to arrive at innate talent of each kid for imparting further training and learning . 3. Exposure to varieties helps determine talent which otherwise remains latent. That is Japan for you. God helps to innovate where duplication or imitation are scarce.
@Thyagarajan Thank you sir for showing interest again to this topic. I too was expecting more FB. Want to learn more about it with everyone's experience. Access to all gadgets have this positive side too which very less talk about.
Many may not agree but this is Just my Opinion. Why we always blame kids. Kids learn to behave this way from some close source to them. Who? None other than their parents. If a child had seen his father sharing chores at home when mother was not well or busy with some other work, he would have learned that he will need to help when someone is not well or in need. Parents fail to display this value at home quite often. From the example in original post, why the wife had to cook so many items when she was not well, and lay it as husband wants? Why the husband failed to give a feel that it would be ok if she had made only rice and curd Or leave a msg to him to buy something from outside for two people? Growing up, children watch how parents help eachother in times of need and learn values accordingly. Can a alcoholic and abusive father advice his son not to drink? Can a abusive mother ask kids to be kind to her in her later days? Parent buy fast foods to kids, later complain they don't eat veggies, what a pity? I won't blame a kid for their behaviour, it was all instilled by their parents. What we sowed in them with or without our knowledge, we reap through them.
Thanks for the reply. Yes this is a strong point you mentioned. Kids observe more than we do. If I shout on kids to make them follow then they also do the same. Also for many other things they adapt the behaviour.
