I have relative who is also my neighbor. She can get along with any kind of people very easily. I had neighbour who was very closed to me. I then introduced her with my relative. They then became very strong friends leaving me apart. I am little reserved kind of a person and friendships and relationships have not gone very well in my life so far. Whoever I have made friends just used me n left me alone. My sil is staying with us and my in laws too came here in USA to stay with us. Within no time that relative became so friendly with them too. Me n my sil are not in good terms with each other. N that relative was blaming me for that. I explained it to her regarding sil. The relative then told evrything to my sil whatever I said. Because of this my sil became very angry on me. Now these relatives are trying to show off their helpful and great personalities by calling my sil to stay with them for couple of days. They are being kind of over intrusive in our family matters. I understand that I shud have not called and told my sil situation. I personally don't like this couple coz of their over intrusive behavior. Whoever we know they just snatch those people from us and make us bad in front of them. And also that relative will not be friendly to me n will not talk properly whenever we meet. I don't know what it is. Is it jealousy or something I don't know. I don't understand how to handle this couple. They are part of most the group of friends whom we do potlucks and get togethers. And also they are trying to become god fathers for my in laws and sil. SIL is unmarried depressed and jobless.