Thanks for the tips! I’ll try to have a conversation (again!) with my husband to come up with a strategy that has least amount of friction and gets a positive outcome. The thing is my husband is very stubborn and a my way or highway kind of guy. It takes enormous amount of energy and patience to reason with him and convince him. But I guess this is going to be my job for the next 4-5 years! I wish it was easier . Sometimes I feel like I need therapy to get rid of the stress this battle causes me.