Hello All, Let me first tell that this website is a my "Best friend" where I can share my Views, happiness, sorrows, feelings without hesitation, just rely on this at any time, without fear or having any second thoughts. I am married for more than 8yrs and have 2 boys. I am working too... At home (without pay and any regards) and at office (Off course, I get paid!!) As everybody else I too went thru lot of problems in my life because of my MIL. To me my MIL is 'Monster-in-law'. But sometimes I feel that we always criticize our IL's and can't we find one good thing about them. They are also human; they will also have both good and bad qualities. But we always see the bad things in them. Can't we see any good thing about them? :yes: MIL being elder to us, they have more experience in life and they have learnt so much. I just want to see that can we adopt one good quality/character from her. :goodidea: So let me write about her -- She is a good manager in the house.