Many know here that I am very fond of writing snippets. Now @Amulet has raised some questions. Let me answer her How good I have been with my children and in laws Children are my asset and I love children. I had the opportunity to conceive only at the age of 33. Yrs. Some said I might not have children because I am thin. But not one but I have 3 children having a difference of 1 yr nine months. I took lot of effort to bring them up and being a working women it was not so easy. Till they were in primary I used to take up their lessons. My son was smart himself and studied independently. He had good grasping power. Till primary he used to score more than eighty. In Xth also he scored 81 percent and I told him to take CA. He had the opportunity to learn ERP when he did industrial training in our office. Today he is a Director of a Company and being CA and ERP is helping him a lot. My two daughters needed my help. As I was workingn I could not teach them cooking, by the time I retired they were married. They learnt cooking and have tried making cheedai also. My younger daughter's mil taught her everything more than me . Any queries they ask me. They did graduation and got a good job. Now my elder daughter is a homemaker, younger one still working.They are attached to me and everyday keep in touch. I had been a good Dil . My mil was there only for two years. But I had taken care of my eldest brother in law in his last days who was unmarried. One of my sis in law also stayed with us for sometime. She was with me and took good care of me when I had hip bone fracture. In my in law's house everyone including men were expert in cooking. They were taught by their mother.Any festival everyone used to be in the kitchen. Now also during my parents in law's death anniversary my brother in law only cooks and his Dil who is a maharashtrian has also learnt South Indian cooking.In the beginning I learnt cooking from my husband. Of late I take the help of Google to make the different varieties. To my knowledge I am liked by all. My husband's family is a big one.He has eight sister's and two brothers. Now 3 sisters are alive. My husband has many nieces and nephews and all are fond of me.