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On A Scale Of 1 To 10, How Would You Rate Your Married Life ? Please Do See Options B

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  1. anitalovesyou

    anitalovesyou Silver IL'ite

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    On the basis of ——
    Love
    Romance
    Sex
    Care
    Share
    Daily—- a hug, a kiss, a touch, a look, a compliment, a smile, etc
     
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  2. SGBV

    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    If the above are the only basis, then I would rate mine between 9-10 as I get them all.
    But, for me marriage means not just love, romance, sex, care, share and those daily behaviors. It is more than that.
    It is the capacity of the partners to provide for the family, to nurture the family, to make decisions etc...
    More so, how they draw a line for the extended family, and how they handle such unwanted interference also matters.

    For me, compatibility between spouses is very important. That makes life very comfortable with each other.
    As a spiritual person, now a days I understand the importance of having a spouse with similar faith as a blessing. This way, you both could discuss a lot on spirituality and rely on God whenever you face obstacles in the family.

    Being in the same page, specially when it comes to parenting is yet another important matter in a marriage.

    Having said that, I would rate 7 for my marriage.
     
  3. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:As per parameters fixed by OP, ON THIS SCALE I rate mine at TEN.
    Happy New Year.
    Thanks and Regards.
    God- your benevolence felt seen received every new year day and rest of the year.
     
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    anitalovesyou Silver IL'ite

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    :smiley:Wow SGBV, Thyagarajan ! 10 ! Both of you are so lucky ! I am super jealous
     
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    On the basis of above.
    I will rate 7
    As a provider, rating is 10
     
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    SriRuchira Silver IL'ite

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    I would rate mine 10 !
    Respecting partners , accepting opinions without any ego , like close buddies ,I was like a baby when I got married , he thought me every single thing in my life ! I was even scared to talk to a shopkeeper but after 10 years of marriage I gave a speech about my business in front of 100 ppl ! (He trained me for that too) !,as other op said nurturing the family ,growing as a family !!I thank god every single day for such a amazing partner
     
  7. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:Hi! Thanks.
    But I must confess that I took her permission to post here so! I a. Neither glad or sad about it as I am wrong side of seventy!
    Regards.

    God bless all & us.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Thyagu, your TEN is based on OP's scale or SGBV's? You have quoted SGBV's post, so wondering. : )

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    I would have to assign a number to each year, add and then divide. Too much work to calculate but would prolly be a high enough number. : )
     
  9. Thyagarajan

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    :hello: Thanks for seeking clarification.
    2. In OPs parameters, sixth one includes the abbreviation etc
    & this etc is inclusive of the unsaid yet sine qua non ones in @SGBV ‘s
    Compatibility, Providing, nurturing, decision making, caring & handling parents in law, spirituality..

    3. Now that both me & my spouse turned #seventy +, mine on the wrong side of seventy - love turned platonic and still touchwood, the rating average that we had already accorded to ten will continue to remain so for us (my spouse & I).

    4. For each year of relationship called marriage, one can think of negatives and arrive at cumulative rating figure and average out for total years of marriage then deduct it suitably from 10 to arrive at rating on OP ‘s scale. Easy you know!!!
    Glad you had mentioned your rating probably HIGH tending to Ten.
    Regards.

    God - I am told weddings are fixed in heaven by your Rating Agency!
     
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