Hi, I don’t know what exactly this situation I am in. Please don’t hesitate to tell me whatever you think. I am in in late 40s and husband in early 50s. We are both busy and have been blessed with good kids. Both children away from home working/studying in different places. Since few months almost a yr I have very little interest in intimacy. While hubby is actually more into it. In fact I get annoyed and irritated with his advances. Even if I give in I don’t enjoy and also kind of feel guilty. Sometimes I feel sad that my children are away and we are nicely enjoying since they are away. Sometimes I worry about kids marriage their settlement in life etc. and above all their health. Thanks to God they are taking care of their health so far eating healthy. Hubby sometimes even says that it’s our time now but I just can’t stand that talk of his. Due to this I keep distance with him. I am not doing it intentionally. It’s just that I feel better being all by myself browsing or reading/writing cooking cleaning or doing laundry. Hubby gets really upset and also angry at me when I say just leave me alone. We have been verbally fighting almost every single day. And don’t go out together anymore. Even if we do we just don’t speak to each other. What makes me more sad is hubby doesn’t show concern towards me or my worries. I even said give me some time for showing intimacy. He says take as much time as you want and never speaks to me. It’s like a frozen situation between us nowadays. Only when kids call we talk. Don’t want them to know all this. It’s really hurting me atleast.