I have been married for a few months now. I'm not enjoying it. Husband is a workoholic and introverted. He is just on his phone and computer watching TV series whenever he is home. I feel he is shy to talk in front of his parents. But even at nights, he just drifts off to sleep the minute he hits the bed, he talks if he is in the mood otherwise - just dozes off. He is mostly preoccupied thinking about his work and future. At times i feel he is not interested in marriage or me, but when he IS in the mood and he talks, he is quite sweet. But this side of him comes out only once in a month or so. I talk more to MIL & FIL than hubby. MIL is bossy but they are ok ok, in-laws are in-laws after all. My problem is not with in-laws but my husband. Why won't he get more involved. Why is he keeping his life separate? Aren't we supposed to live our lives together now?? I have spoken to him about this, and explained to him that i feel he is not interested in marriage and me. He says no no no, thats not the case. I am pre occupied with my work right now, but things will be better. I cry myself to sleep nearly every night because hubby doesn't care or pay much attention to me. He is happy and content living his own life, and leaves me to have a relationship with in-laws. I am married to HIM right, not his parents. Why should i converse with them just to be polite when hubby doesn't feel the need to entertain me\ converse with me. I'm not able to adjust to married life because of this. The best time for me right now in life is when i sleep and when i am in office. i try and extend my office hours and do time pass outside home just to avoid coming home and dealing with hubby and in laws. I thought at least the first few years of marriage were supposed to be enjoyable. Is it an issue with me. Because honestly my in-laws are ok - they are not evil or bad. They have their own personality traits that every one has. They have negatives but they also have positives. They treat me well. Hubby is good too , there is no such negative issue that i face in particular. He treats me well. So is it a problem with me ?