Hi friends, I do not know if any one has already posted this kind of query. Here goes my problem : I am working and my kid is 11 months old. I started work from when my kid was 3.5 months old, hence my milk also started reducing and I stopped BF when he completed 10 months. He was not interested in having my milk as the flow had reduced badly and I had no other option than to stop. My kid is very happy when he is with his grand father. My mil used to taunt me earlier that my kid does not need me and she handles him without any problem, somehow all of that has stopped now. But lately my kid refuses to come to me, he cries when i take him. he wants to play with his granny or grand dad. I do not wish to work, but since we need to provide him a better future and due to some financial constraints I need to work. It was very painful in the beginning to leave him and go, but I managed later. Now when I see that he does not have any bonding with me I feel devastated. Where am I going wrong? After I reach home, I take him and try playing with him, I used to feed him in the morning and night, but now he wants to go with his grand dad and granny for having food, they take him out and now he is used to going out and having food. What can I do to make the situation better? I am not sure if you have understood what I want to convey, but please tell me if its normal to get upset when kid does not bond with the mother. I want to know if anyone else also feels like me.