Yep my thought too...I was just thinking one more thing here might be vinitha can answer this... Now she is in a very emotional state...everything seems clueless and confusing, life and dreams seem shattered...she might be angry and feeling helpless at the same time...so with all these emotions running high..it wont do any good...to handle such situations, she needs to be strong, and FIRM. She has to show that she wont take a step back in dragging him to court in what so ever cheating he is doing after marriage. As she is saying that she has proofs. Vinitha Enough time wasted ...Tell your husband you are calling your parents and inlaws and will show them the proofs and see how he reacts (Ask him as he has nothing to fear because he is not intouch with her as per him ). Whether good / bad, just please involve them in this and let them know...the moment you take more time, they might turn around and ask you why did you take all this crap this long..you should have told us in the begining itself..now things have gone out of our hands etc..etc...so dont wait..Your story would be an eye opener for your sister and your parents and sister would ensure they know everything about the bridegroom before they marryoff your sister.